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Date: Mon, 7 Nov 2005 17:43:02 -0000
I am 14 years old and I am entering a debate on whether to ban violent lyrics in songs, I am fighting
against this. I listen to songs which contain explicit lyrics, as I am a fairly big punk rock fan. I believe that our actions reflect the music we listen to, not the music we listen to reflecting our actions. I am not a violent person, yet I still enjoy listening to other people’s experiences that they have written about in their songs. It helps also when you can relate to a song, so you know that someone else has gone through what you have.
Bibi's Reply: Please
let me know in which country you live. People like to consider the
national influences in relation to your opinion, as each country differs
tremendously in history, social attitudes, priorities and types of crime.
Date: Tue, 22 Nov 2005I live in England, where live music is a big thing, it not only
defines who you are but it also plays a part in who you are friends with. The government are considering censoring violent
and explicit lyrics in songs. E.g. Ganster rap. I am against this because I
believe that the government do not have the right to do this and it would mean that some of the music that I listen to would be banned.
Regarding the debate I mentioned in my first e-mail to you, I have done that now and we won.
Rebecca.
Bibi's Reply: Thank
you for your reply. Rest assured, I will not include your email, but I
will include your additional paragraph. Congratulations on winning
the debate. I like Gangster Rap too. I liked the Nightmare on
Elmstreet Rap too, because it was so funny, but I can't remember the exact
title, nor who sang it.
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From : Kevin
Blake
Sent : 16 October 2004 13:44:12
Subject : Music
Hello I am an 18 year old from Switzerland. I am doing a project on
the influence that music can have on a teenager. It is a very difficult
subject because nothing is proved. I still have found some hypothesis that
I find might be right. So here is a part of my work (sorry for the english)
Violent music (lyrics) can cause violence but never on it's own it is a
huge amount of factors that make someone do a violent act. If a teenager
feels rejected, hatred, no love in his family etc... and then goes to a
concert where the band in their lyrics express the exact same hate he is
feeling inside, their music will act like a catalyst to his envy to be
violent. What we must not forget is that every person reacts differently
to the same type of music and that a lot of people don't express their
violent feelings through violence.
Teenagers don't only listen to a certain type of music because they like
it but also to be part of a certain social group. In my country teenagers
who listen to rap hate the ones who listen to rock just because the ones
who listen to rock are usually better integrated people in society. The
ones who listen to hardcore techno often describe themselves as the true
Swiss, so they hate the rappers(who are often 1st generation foreigners)
who hate them in return. In this case music doesn't voluntarily want to be
separate, but is used by teenagers to distinguish themselves and to create
their proper identity. To distinguish themselves, each group of fans (be
it punk, metal, hardcore techno, hip-hop) have their dressing code
influenced by the media. For example it will be very hard for a rapper to
become friends with a rocker because of his clothes. This way of thinking
usually stops at the beginning of adulthood. The need of a teenager to
distinguish himself from the others is finished because he has been able
to create his own identity.
I find that having a website like this is very important for debating on
music and violence. If anyone knows of other websites or has some advice
for my work please tell me! Thanks
Bibi's Comment: Thank you for your valid
input. Good luck with your project.
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From : kimberley
taylor
Sent : 18 November 2004 09:41:16
To : musicalenglishlessons@hotmail.com
i dont agree with the fact that teenage violence is because of there music
the music they listen to ha nothing to do ith how violent they are they
could listen to pop and still be violent i listen to death metl and im not
violent .........much ...hehe kimberley, australia
Bibi's comment: No corrections have been made
to this letter, so it can be seen in the right context.. All
comments are welcome, whether serious or tongue in cheek.
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From
: Stephen Miller <whiteballer1084@hotmail.com>
Sent : 22 April 2004 23:40:02
Subject : Interview Questions
If you have any knowledge at all on the topics, your input would be
greatly appreciated. Thanks again! -Steve Miller
1)
Do you think the rating system on CD's is effective?
2) Even though there are Parental Advisory Warnings on music, do you think
all businesses actually pay attention to those ratings?
3) Do you think the music we listen to effects the way a person acts?
4) Do you believe music can persuade people to do harmful/violent acts?
5) If you do not think businesses take the rating system seriously, then
do you think these businesses should be fined?
6) What can be done to combat the overwhelming amount of violence
portrayed by the media?
Bibi's Comment: Your questions are valid and
well-worded. Unfortunately, my experience is minimal in respect of
violent music. (My article was about music & violent images.)
Therefore, in order to help you obtain the answers, your questions have
been printed here.
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From
: mahnoomin <mahnoomin@new.rr.com>
Sent : 06 April 2004 16:46:52
Subject : violence and music
Thank you so much for your web site. I am in the process of doing a
research report for school on the negative affects of the media on
children. Your site inspired me. Yes, you are right on track.
As an Elder in the Native American Tradition, I do volunteer work with
troubled children at a group home. Their stories break my heart. The
state steps in and they are placed on 3 or more medications, for anxiety,
depression and anti-social behavior. These are children from 10-16
years of age. Many of them come in with their rap music, heavy metal
and all kinds of former gang member activities and attitudes. We sit
them down at the big drum, take this other music away and teach them
respect. The respect is in the ancient teachings about the drum, the
grandfathers and grandmothers' teachings. We see these children
start to open up. They tell their stories. They start to heal.
It’s sad to see they are only given to us for 4-6 years, then are sent
back all drugged and numbed, expected to be the parents to the parents who
created their state of being. America is such a lie. We do not
have freedom and rights; they have been taken from us by big corporate
greed. Sex, violence, drugs, they are the things that sell, they run
our economy, no president will stand up to the comedy of errors coming out
of our television, through magazines, and music. I lived in Lake
Geneva Wisconsin for four years and knew about the man who created
Dungeons and Dragons. His own son committed suicide by attacking
policemen with knives; they had to shoot the poor young man. A
neighbor told me there are really strange satanic things going on in that
home; kids come running out of there, in fear of their lives,
wanting to get to the nearest route or road away from that home.
There was an investigation and all is hushed up. It has never been a
secret in that area, the man is into heavy black occult practice. He uses
it to scare anyone he feels threatened by. Yet look at his revenues,
look at Madonna, Marilyn Manson and others; are these the role models,
morals and lack of respect we want for the children? Not me, in the
Native Tradition my role as a woman, mother, grandmother etc. is to first
protect them, teach, and give them a good moral structure to live their
life, or to do what we call walking the Red Road by. One of the old
Native Nation teachings are “ You can not defeat a Nation until the
hearts of its mothers lie bleeding on the ground”. We are at that
stage in the Americas. How many mothers need to lose their children
to violence, drugs, sexual disease, before we all wake up. Where are
our rights, to teach our values, to demand respect at all times, as elders
and teachers. They have been taken away by government greed for what
sells. It’s time for all women of all Nations to stand up and be
heard. We need to save the children from this dangerous, destructive
path our media is pushing on all of us world wide. Women have always
been the strength of all Nations, even when done in silence. What we
do in this generation affects the next seven generations. I look at
the young girls showing ¾ of their bodies to go to school and know they
are not there to learn. Where is the respect for themselves, it’s
been changed by wrong role models, music, games, magazines. We have
World Leaders who lie; they don’t go to jail, simply because of
wealth and power. Young men, have shame these days, they look
to false role models they can’t possibly be: the terminator, and the
likes of anti-social morals. Why and how can a 14 year old child buy
a CD sold as a regular item, containing words about perverted sex in the
attic, live a normal life with normal values? I value your teaching
it is good and strong and you are on the good red road of life.
However we need to do more as women, collectively world wide to stop this
dangerous assault on the children. Why does MTV exist? What is this
teaching the young? It is time to take our rights back. I am
all for freedom of expression as long as that freedom does not harm others.
Here in the States everyone has freedom of
expression, the Ku Klux Klan, the Nazi party, Skin heads and makers of
violent media. Where do these rights end? At the destruction
of our children?
Bibi's
Comment: I am sure your crusade will find support among many worried
parents. All views on this subject are welcome. NOTE:
Punctuation has been changed and one explicit description slightly
altered.
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From : <HarenM309@aol.com>
Sent : 13 April 2004 18:19:53
Subject : comments regarding your articles
Hello Bibi, My name is Monica and I am a 3rd grade teacher in New
York State in the United States. I found several of your
articles while doing reseach on using popular music to help students write
poetry. The
second article I read was title Music and Violence. You asked for
comments to see if this theory was world-wide. I have not done any
research on this subject, but do have some opinions. Yes, I agree
our music does have more violence in it, and the development of video
games have reflected more violence. I am not convinced that watching
or listening to such things will evoke one to become violent. I look
at them as catharses for emotions we all have. Our world is full of
violence and always has been. Perhaps our music, games, movies,
commercials are just a reflection of what we experience everyday, albeit
from news, etc. For those that do commit violent acts upon others
and/or become addicted to anything, it is a much deeper problem and
music/videos/porn is just a place to wallow in ones addiction. Would
the addiction be gone if the music, etc were gone. I believe no,
those that are addicted will just find another place to wallow until they
are aware of their shortcomings and willing to seek help. Thank you,
Monica
Bibi's Comment: I welcome your
opinion about violence and music. A
surprising number of visitors come to the website to research this subject
they will be pleased to read your comments. Monica's feedback on the
first article 'The Perfect Teaching Medium' can be found on www.musicalenglishlessons.org/feedback-ESL.htm
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From: BARRON O.M
Subject: Computer games and violence
Date: Fri, 20 Feb 2004 17:33:51 -0000
I'm studying psychology at Swansea uni. My project's looking at
music and emotion; as I was researching for it, I came across your
computer games and violence article. I agree with you to some
extent, that computer games can
influence you. For example, I was playing a particularly addictive
game the other day - Grand Theft Auto: Vice City. The idea is to run
around a city, beating up and killing people, and generally causing
mayhem. What makes this game particularly worrying is that it's all
done to songs you've heard in everyday life. The game is set in the '80s.
Every time you jump in a vehicle, the radio comes on. You can then
flick between about a dozen radio stations that play real songs from the
'80s. You do this whilst doing drive-by shootings, running people
over, street racing and the like. You'll be pleased to know that you
can choose to not have the radio on at all! Because it's all done to
music you know already, that you hear in everyday life, I find this game
blurs the lines of reality. I found myself looking at a car the
other day, thinking, "that's nice, I'll have that", then
realised what I was thinking..!
But that's where it stops - because I realised what had happened. I
don't think the game programmes people to be killers. Even though
the soundtrack's real, I can differentiate between fantasy and reality.
But then again, people with problems such as schizophrenia, where reality
and fantasy become intertwined, may be at risk. I don't really know
why I'm sending you this email. I suppose it's because you asked for
comments, and it's something I find quite interesting..?! Good luck
with everything, and I think your language teaching with music is a really
good idea. Ollie Barron
Bibi's Reply: Thank you for adding your comments.
From the comments which I have had, you are the first to read my article
from the angle which I intended. I did not know about the game you
mention, so I am particularly grateful to you for mentioning it, as it is
provides a useful example. As regards teaching with music,
fortunately there is always a positive side to everything and another of
my articles www.musicalenglishlessons.org/art-perfect.htm uses a similar
argument in order to extol the benefits of teaching with music. Good luck
with your studies. Psychology is a fascinating and endless subject.
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From: "jessica" <jessica@midtel.net
Subject: I strongly diagree
Date: Thu, 5 Feb 2004 21:05:10 -0500
Mrs. Boarder, I am a 16 yr. old junior. I attend Middleburgh High
School in upstate New York. I strongly disagree with the information
that you have on your site. In one of you web pages you say how
music is the cause of teen violence and that it brings past emotions to
mind. You state, "Emotions enhance memory." which
means the pain and anger do not come from the music that is heard by the
teens. Yet, it comes from the hurtful memories of the past. I believe that
you contradict yourself in these statements. Past experience may be
a cause of violence because of what a child is brought up around but
because something reminds you of it doesn't mean that it is the cause for
anger. My siblings and I have been through many things so far in
life and we were not handed one thing on a silver platter. We
love music of all kinds and my younger brothers love Eminem. As you
probably know he creates some pretty violent songs about hatred toward all
people. Yet, if your theory was true, all five of my younger brothers
would be violent. They are far from it. Each one of my brothers are
good students who go out of their way to help other people.
Music is definitely an expression of emotion, kind of like.....POEMS, the
only difference between music and poems is the background beat. To
conclude this e-mail I have one question: Would you say that Poems
are a cause of violence? Thank You. Rudi-Lynn Armlin P.S.
I would love a respond
Bibi's Reply: Thank you for
writing and it is nice to hear your interesting views. You have
misread both articles as they are not as negative as you have interpreted
them; however, your interpretation reveals how differently readers
can view the same piece of writing. In answer to your question about
poems being a cause for violence, I have never seen a poem which might
have such a negative influence. I would therefore say that it is
very unlikely, but not impossible; people are diverse and influenced by
different things. It would be interesting to hear the views of a
psychologist.
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I too, have had a life long love affair with music and
music is almost entirely what I concern myself with apart from the day to
day necessities. I teach music and have taught music, music
theory and history for over twenty years. I have experienced changes
in popular culture and styles of music from, I think, a different
perspective.
May I say that what I see happening in the past 10 or 15 years is quite
frightening. Popular music has become, in fact, no longer the
provenance of the individual artist but producers and accountants.
Popular music today (with some notable exceptions) is created to be
consumed, not appreciated. It has become a product. But
more than that, to maximize sales music must celebrate what was once
anti-social and deviant behavior. This is attractive to the young
who are going through a period of rebelliousness as part of their maturing
process. Unfortunately, the music does not reflect the joy of that
rebellion as did the rock and roll era of the 50's and 60's. It
propagates anger, misogyny, violence and worst of all ignorance.
Among young blacks it derides all attempts at convention and the desire to
improve one's life (see Bob Herbert, NY Times July 9) and so that
education is scorned. These are no small matters. Furthermore,
there is extensive research showing real psycho-physiological effects on
the human brain wrought by repeated viewing of images of violence and
listening to music with violent content.
This is no accident. Big corporations know that the best way to
control a population is through its art. How do they know this?
From experience, for one. It has been practiced for hundreds of
years in many countries that have been controlled by dictatorships.
In ALL cultures and throughout time, music has been seen as a powerful
catalyst in the formation of the ethics and character of both the
individual and of society itself. Confucius himself wrote
that, "in order to determine whether a society is well governed, all
one need to do is to examine its music." Not is army, or its
economy or its educational system but its music! Plato, perhaps the
greatest thinker known to western civilization wrote extensively about the
power of music upon society. He wrote, "Let me write the songs
of a nation, and I will care not who makes its laws."
These are but two examples of a philosophy that permeates all of mankind's
cultures. All with the exception of our own. The arts no
longer serve to hold society together, its myths to inform upon reality,
reconciling all to the mysteries of the Universe. No, we see music
as form of "entertainment" hence, we do not take its import
seriously. And this is our downfall.
Teen violence, alcoholism, depression and suicide are at an all-time high.
Is this simply because of the music young people listen to? That
would be a simplistic deduction, however, studies show that this music can
powerfully alter states of minds otherwise not so inclined. Indeed,
recent tragic events (Columbine, for one) have their origins in the music
that the perpetrators listened to.
Before it's too late, if it is not already, society needs to address the
heinous state of music education in the country and restore it to its
former high stature. Children on their way to a violin lesson rarely
mug anyone.
Joseph Ciolino, Assistant
Professor, Arts and Humanities, NYU, The New School University, U.S.
Bibi's
Reply: I am grateful to you for writing. Your concerns are
extremely valid. Children
from well-balanced environments might be at less risk, but even they are
not immune from negative influences.
Many less-fortunate youngsters will just be swept along with the
tide
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Myself, being a teenager, i know what these articles are
talking about. Parents these days, with the exception of mine, need to
realize that the music doesn't encourage teen violence , it is about teen
violence. For example, the band P.O. D and the song Youth of the Nation.
Just putting in my input! Katie, California
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One of my students is doing a research paper on how violence in music affects teenagers. He found your site, and the article: Teen Violence and
Music: the Real Connection by Marcus Strife, written in 2001. In his article, Marcus references Kathleen O'Toole's article in Rock & Roll
article: does it influence teens' behavior. My student would like to see that original article by O'Toole, but we have been unable to even locate
the magazine, Rock & Roll, if indeed it is a magazine rather than some other publication. Do you have any information about Kathleen O'Toole that we could use? Her
email or place of work or study? The article you posted on your site SEEMS to have good information, but we cannot verify it or document it, and
Strife did not cite his sources in a way that we can locate the original document. Since reliability, validity, and authority are keys to
evaluating web sites, we hope you can help us.Thank you very much Teen Violence and Music: The Real Connection
by Marcus Strife Lynn Lowell, District Librarian, M.S.A.D. #67, Mattanawcook Academy, Lincoln, Maine 04457
207-794-6711
Bibi's Reply: Marcus, your article has been extremely popular. if you read this, please contact me as I have mislaid your email address.
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Hi, my name is Adam
Struzynski, and I am doing a resource paper on negative music lyrics
and i was hoping to get your input on this information. If you could
take time and answer my questions, that would be great.
1. Do you feel that explicit music has a negative impact on
society? why or why not?
Bibi says: I have published two articles on
this website which should answer these questions:
2. If vulgarity was taken out of music that has
it, would the songs have a significant impact without them?
Bibi says: That would depend on the lyrics.
Look at the lyrics and remove the profanities and any vulgar idea and see
if what is left makes sense. Probably not in the majority of cases,
because you have removed the bulk of the lyrics.
3. What would you do to control the amount of
vulgarity that is contained in songs?
Bibi says: The days of censorship have gone.
Therefore, open examination of these lyrics in schools (their purpose and
impact) would expose them for their emptiness.
4. Do you think the gov't is doing its part to
prevent explicit music from being sold to consumers under the age of 18?
why or why not?
Bibi says: Society used to help the parent in a
number of ways, but the 'Human Rights Act' has changed people's attitudes
and everything is seen as interference. Television has an important
part to play, but is busy trying to increase ratings in a very competitive
market, so has abandoned its responsibilities.
5. Do you listen to music that contains explicit
lyrics? why or why not?
Bibi says: Not by choice, but often
accidentally, when listening to the radio. I listen for a while to
try and determine how the lyrics are being used and how they are changing,
then I switch off because they are so limited. The beauty of English
is that it is such a rich language, it can be entertaining, colourful,
suggestive - whatever you want it to be, without the need for profanities.
The use of profanities is a limited language for limited people;
nevertheless, I understand rebellious teenagers need an aggressive focus
until they have found themselves and this type of music provides it.
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I
am the president of a non-profit music association called CAMEO
(Canadian Association for Musical Empowerment and Opportunity). We don't
allow music that we consider degrading and demoralizing to be played at
our events.
If
the violent messages being preached by today's musical
"artists" have no effect, why were 53 women in New York's
Central Park sexually assaulted by gangs of thugs who were singing a
popular rap song and imitating the action in the video for that song?
If
it's only words and music and they have no effect on people's behaviour,
why do advertisers spend millions on slogans and jingles to influence
your buying behaviour---- because it has no effect?
Get
a grip. Words and music are powerful. They always have been and history
proves it. Stop defending the right of greedy entertainers and media
moguls to exploit the weaknesses of human nature and saturate us
with messages glorifying violence and mayhem.
The
American Psychological Association says "the scientific debate
is over". Countless studies have proven a direct correlation
between violent entertainment and actual violence. Any person with
common sense can see it without such studies but there are none so
blind as those who will not see.
Wake
up and smell the coffee and quit being an apologist for the cynical, the
brutal, and the degraded so-called "artists" who are playing
their part in the corruption of our entire society while they laugh all
the way to the bank.
Sincerely,
Ron Hughes, Canada.
President of CAMEO
(Canadian Association for Musical Empowerment and Opportunity) www.cameocanada.com
Bibi's
Comment: Thank
you for your valid comments regarding violence in music. I will add it
to http://www.musicalenglishlessons.org/art-violcomments.htm It will add a new dimension to this page and I am sure it
will provoke interesting comment. We have a high proportion of
visitors seeking information about violence and music.
I
am unsure which pages you have seen on my website, but http://www.musicalenglishlessons.org/art-perfect.htm extols
the benefits of music as a teaching medium
http://www.musicalenglishlessons.org/art-violence.htm
warns of the brainwashing and detrimental influences when music is teamed
with violent images
http://www.musicalenglishlessons.org/contributors/marcusstrife.htm
contains an essay which dismisses the link between violence and music.
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As a teen musician writing a paper on the
affects of music. I couldn't help but be fascinated with the
article by Marcus Strife I to agree with him on the basis that every
person interperates music differently, I myself sitting with my
guitar writing a song on how my emotions strike me at the moment.
For some the moment a song comes on that has slow or depressing tempo
or mood can strike that "aloneness" in life and magnify it
to a greater degree leaving the person that much more dettached and
aware of their own sadness. I see music as a mood enhancer if you are
happy then you get happier and if you are sad you get
"sadder". With this thought i let music be what it is and those parents
who say that its the musics fault are just trying to put the blame on
something else for their own neglect of their own child BUENO2891@aol.com
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I am doing a research project for my English
argumentative essay. your site has been very helpful to me!! thank you!!
I was wondering is there actual proof of increased hate crimes ( deaths
to homosexual people, ethnic murders, murders based on sex, rape, child
abuse etc.). Thank you for your time Received: 18.3.02 from FLIP4GYMNASTICS@aol.com
BIBI'S COMMENT: Thank you for taking the trouble to write and inform me
know that my website has been useful in your project. I will print your letter and maybe
someone will contact you with the information you require. Good luck
with your essay.
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As a musician and a teen I must object. Music
does not inspire violent tendencies; people do... The people who
commit these crimes are treated badly both in and out of school;
they feel victimized by "popular society". I've seen it myself;
these people are treated like dirt. When they come home they escape
to a world where they are in charge; they fantasize about getting
revenge. Ma'am, I write music to help relieve my stress (ie: if
my girlfriend breaks up with me I write a song); my lyrics sometimes
can have a slightly dark message (ie: "my faith is broken, there's
nothing left to salvage"), but they do not elicit any emotion in my
listeners other than pity or understanding. I guess what I'm trying to say
is that my music is my life. I respect your right to say what you think is
right, but I ask that you think of people it affects. Without music,
we have nothing to direct our "volcano of rage" at.. Respectfully
yours Marcus
Strife (16), Indiana
BIBI'S
COMMENT: I am sorry my article made you
angry, but I would like to explain that I am not against music. In
fact, I love and appreciate listening to every type of music from
classical to folk to techno to heavy metal, etc. For this
reason, I create worksheets so teachers can use Beatles' songs or folk
songs to teach English to non-native speakers, because music is such a
good teaching medium. I wrote an article about the benefits of music
before I wrote the one about violence and computer games. My article
was written to reflect my worries that when kids play violent computer
games over and over, they are brainwashing themselves and, if the games
are accompanied by music, then the brainwashing is much worse and can
reinforce the negative messages every time they hear that music, whether
they are playing the games or not. This article was inspired by my
son spending hours on the same computer games with the music going
repetitively. For someone just listening and not playing the game, the
repetition is unbearable, but for the player, the music has meaning
because (in a violent game) it is associated with killing. When I
mentioned music stirring emotions, I was not talking about the lyrics,
although people sometimes relate to lyrics; I was talking about the
melody itself. Music is very powerful and affects the brain and
emotions tremendously. It can even reach mentally handicapped people
who cannot respond to anything else. Furthermore, even when people
become brain-damaged (eg: with a stroke) they still respond to music which
was important to them. Like everything, there are always advantages
and disadvantages. The article you read, referred to some of
the disadvantages, but I also wrote a very positive article saying how
beneficial music is. http://www.musicalenglishlessons.org/art-perfect.htm
Hello
again, ma'am,
I want to apologize for my misinterpretation of your
article. In my research, I have come across nothing, but music
bashing "fanatics". These people go right out and
say that all teens are an uncontrollable resource that needs to be caged.
As I am sure you know there have been several school shootings in America,
parents literally go into a frenzy trying to point blame at something.
Music is my life and for two years all I have heard is "music is bad
it causes murder". It is for this reason that I have such
indignation on the topic. Deepest respect, Marcus
Strife (16), Indiana
BIBI'S
COMMENT: The
shootings are happening, because guns are readily available in America,
In England, there are many angry teenagers, but they do not have guns.
The worse they can do is fight with fists, knives or baseball bats;
it is impossible to hurt a lot of people in a short time with just those
weapons.
Send
your
comments (Please include your name & country)
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Hi,
I am an avid gamer. I like to play all types of games, everything from
adventure to extremely violent "shoot' um up" games such as
duke nukem and quake, but I'm a normal teenager. I have no violent
intentions nor do I want to kill people.I just find it odd that people
like to blame computer games for what other people do. like in columbine
the 2 shooters did in fact play violent games, but in an article I read
they were already taking pills or something for a mental condition, the
article mentioned that the game did not get them to commit the act, they
acted on their own behalf. well I wrote you this because I love to play
games, I spend a lot of time involved in the gaming community. I would
be what you would call a Veteran of the gaming world because I have
played them since I could afford them. right now I am currently very
active with all the games the Blizzard entertainment has published which
can be found at www.blizzard.com. they make wonderful games. And I see
no need for them to stop. I suggest that parents should have a
"group play" time which the parents play the games that their
children do to understand what their child is seeing. I have tried to
explain to my parents what I'm doing and they often watch and comment on
what they see. I'm sure they do not understand what is happening but they
can tell by my emotions that it is a safe game. I will admit that
I am high aware of the surroundings that I play in, if that makes any
sense. Well actually, I'll tell you this: games for me are a way out of
life, I can put myself somewhere else for a few hours at a time with no
worries, and no cares. I have built a tolerance for violence, i.e. I'm a
hunter and I have no problem killing an animal. But that is something
different. in the house that I am being raised in is very strict when it
comes to control of guns and I have learned at an early age of what guns
can do.
Well, everything I have talked to you about was from the letter and the
response you Marcus
Strife had talked about, I might be way off and if I am I'm very
sorry, so if you have any questions or comments please write me back. I
just thought I would throw my 2 cents in on what I know a lot about. So
thank you for your time if you should read this Kyle
Cover, 16, PA
BIBI'S COMMENT: I
accept that there are many teenagers (you included) who are not aggressive
towards others after playing violent computer games; it is lucky for
society that this is the case. Nevertheless, there are many who are
influenced and cause harm to others.
You are very right when you say that computer games alone cannot be blamed
for mindless violence; nevertheless, they can be a contributary
factor in combination with a range of other influential factors, eg: peer
pressure, drugs, alcohol, personality disorders, a lack of social skills,
poor communication skills, environmental factors and frustration with
educational difficulties (though not necessarily a low intellect).
A "group play"
time involving parents is an excellent suggestion and one which could
reasonably be adopted (or is already being operated) by many parents of
well-adjusted teenagers. Unfortunately, not every parent is willing
or able to adequately supervise and monitor their children's use of
computer games.
Your escapism through the use of computer games can be compared with the
escapism experienced by avid readers. You are lucky to have an open
and relaxed relationship with your parents, but unfortunately not everyone
does. Traditionally, parents experience difficulties in relating to
their teenagers. Judging by your letter, your parents' trust in you
seems well-deserved; on the other hand, there are many other parents
whose trust in their children's judgement is misplaced.
Thank you very much for taking the trouble to write. I am keen to
have feedback - both for and against whatever has been written, because
articles on this website are designed to promote discussion.
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READERS' REQUESTS
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- SUBJECT: Lyrics Request
- SENDER: Heather,
celina, ohio (Please reply direct to Heather with a copy
to
Bibi)
- REQUEST RECEIVED: 4th October 2003
Hi! I sing like everyday and everyone says i got a shot to go
somewhere with it, i quit singin for awhile b/c of a serious car
wreck and now im getting back into it but i want my own songs, can
you help in anyway? I know what i want, and i will do anything to
get there. i sing just about anything, my main thing is pop
or punk. most of my singing is inspired by my ex boyfriend, who is
now my best friend, he pushes me to keep singing.i would appreciate
you posting this request, it would be great, maybe somebody could
help me out. thanx.
Bibi's Reply: I am willing to print your request on
my music & violence feedback page, because a lot of teenagers go
to that page for research and they may know someone who can help
you.
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