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©
Bibi Baxter 200
THE
SECRET OF GENUINE HAPPINESS
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Happiness is
achieved from having:-
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- being
positive and treating every problem as 'lucky' because it was not
worse
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- a
free spirit (i.e. allowing your soul to be free and unencumbered
with lies and/or an artificial way of living)
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- a
conscience as a guide in life
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- humility
(i.e.knowing your place in life, yet ensuring negative people do not
exert ‘control’ over you, using negative emotions and deeds)
- You
are not the best
- You
are not the worst
- You
are lucky however you are
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- compassion
for others less fortunate than yourself, even if that person has
harmed you
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- a
healthy attitude to life and other people (i.e. live and let live)
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- a
moral lifestyle comprising of entertainment
in the form of healthy competition, sport, exercise & relaxation
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Happiness is
from living:-
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- a
worthwhile life (i.e. helping, but not hurting others)
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- an
honest life (i.e. honest with yourself, honest with others,
admitting your mistakes and accepting whichever punishment is given
as ‘deserved’
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Happiness is:-
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- from
small and/or large achievements through hard work
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- being
able to laugh at mishaps and your own mistakes
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- allowing
God to punish wrongdoers, so thoughts of revenge are unnecessary
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- avoiding
all negative emotions
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- sharing
your ‘unsolvable’ worries with
God and asking for his help
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- enjoying
& appreciating your surroundings and everything Nature has to
offer
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- knowing
there is something to be learnt from everyone and everything, but
you have to listen and let them speak, or watch and learn
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- putting
learning and enjoyment high on your priority list
- making
money & sex low priorities
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- protecting
your soul’s innocence from the evil things in life
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- constant
self-analysis in order to understand
yourself
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- positive
(without envy) balanced comparisons with the lifestyles of others by
listing advantages & disadvantages
- contentment
with everything you have, regardless of whether others have more
(the other person's grass is not greener...... even if it looks as
if it is)
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- achieved
from not blaming your problems on others
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- being
multi-skilled, so you can do things yourself, or understand how
things are done
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